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There are thoughts that feel impossible to say out loud because they feel so completely at odds with everything you want to be as a mother that the mind recoils from them.

In psychiatry, we call this ego-dystonic. 

Which means it’s a thought
The good enough mother is a term coined by the psychiatrist and paediatrician Donald Winnicott, who spent his career watching mothers and babies.

Instead of being the 'perfectly attuned' mother, he found it was the willingness to come back after the
The bond between a mother and her baby begins in the small conversations she has with her bump, in the way she imagines them, worries for them, begins to make room for them, in her home, in her life, in herself.

This is called antenatal attachment:
In 1975, a psychoanalyst named Selma Fraiberg published a paper called Ghosts in the Nursery. It described something they kept observing in their clinical work with mothers and babies, that the unresolved experiences of a parent's own childhood had a
Something I notice a lot in my practice is that the women who find it hardest to ask for help are often the ones who need it most. They've become so good at functioning through it that seeking support starts to feel like an overreaction.

The bar wom
One of the things I see most often in my practice is mothers who are convinced that the difficulty they're having bonding with their baby means something is fundamentally wrong with them.

But it doesn't because bonding isn't a switch that flips the

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LOCATION

WARM Health Collective
Level 5, 116 Rokeby St
Collingwood, 3066

CONTACT

referrals@warmhealthcollective.com.au
Ph: 03 8658 0234

I warmly welcome people of all bodies, genders, sexualities and family structures, including LGBTQIA+ communities. I am committed to providing care that is safe, inclusive and affirming for all.

I acknowledge the Traditional Custodians of countries throughout Australia and their connections to land, sea, and community. I acknowledge and pay respect to the Wurundjeri and Boonwurrung people of the Kulin Nation, the Traditional Custodians of the Country on which I live and work.​

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